How To Make A Tough Decision

“The Lord said to Moses, ‘Send some men to explore the land of Canaan,which I am giving to the Israelites.'” Numbers 13:1-2

The story of Joshua and Caleb offers some incredible insight into decision making that I have completely overlooked until recently. To set the scene, God wants to lead the Israelites in the promise land with the leadership of Moses. God tells Moses to send 12 scouts to explore the land of Canaan and bring back a report on what they saw of the land and the people. The scouts explored for 40 days and then came back and gave their reports in front of Moses, Aaron, and the whole community. Of the 12 reports only two were positive. Joshua and Caleb believed that since God has promised them this land, despite the reports from the others, they could indeed conquer this land. But unfortunately the bad reports spread and the people rebelled. This very much displeased God and because of it, He made sure that Moses and all the people would wander for 40 years and never enter the promise land…the only exceptions being Joshua and Caleb. And as for the 10 spies that gave bad reports?  “They were struck dead with a plague before the Lord.” (Numbers 14:37) 

Now let’s fast forward 45 years. Joshua and Caleb lead the people into the promise land and they begin to divide it amongst the people. Caleb requests his land from Joshua with this powerful statement:  

“I was forty years old when Moses the servant of the Lord sent me from Kadesh Barnea to explore the land. And I brought him back a report according to my convictions, but my fellow Israelites who went up with me made the hearts of the people melt in fear. I, however, followed the Lord my God wholeheartedly.” Joshua 14:7-8

Did you catch that? Caleb brought back a report based on his convictions and not what the circumstances around him were showing. The others reported on what they felt in the natural and the ramifications were grave. I believe, however, that this statement has powerful implications for the decisions that you and I are facing today. In the natural the reports we may be getting could be negative. “The doctors are saying this…”, or “My boss said that…” “My bank account looks like this…” or “My future is so unclear…” I’m sure all of us are facing difficult decisions today, and some of you may feel stuck. Make your decision based on your convictions, based on what you know is the truth…God’s truth. Our emotions and circumstances can lead us away from what God has called us to do. Lean into God’s Word and His promises today, moving forward with those decisions.

Lead From Courage Not Fear

“Many spiritual leaders do not lead from courage. They lead from fear. Fear drives many ministries. Fear of being disliked, fear of losing income, fear of failure, fear of conflict–these and a hundred other fears form a giant that calls the leader out of the contest.” Reggie McNeal – A Work of Heart

How often in life do we let our fears dictate what can and cannot do? I’ve heard it said that our fears establish the limits of our life. Fear is a powerful force, and if left unchecked, it can end up taking over our lives and holding us back from reaching our full potential and being all that God has called us to be.

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” 2 Timothy 1:7

Today, think about your life’s trajectory…Would you say you are walking in confidence knowing the power you have in Christ, or is fear determining your course? God has given all of us the unique set of tools that we need to succeed in what He has called us to do. We can now walk in courage knowing Christ has set us up to succeed because He loves us; and 1 John 4:18 says, “Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear…” We can take on our days with freedom and confidence because of Christ’s love for us. Amen.

What Are You Thankful For?

“Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever!” Psalm 107:1

Being thankful is underrated!

It way too easy to fall into the trap of just focusing on the negatives in life and not giving any mention or thanks to the positives…The truth is, for the most part, we have it so good.  It’s vitally important to recognize the incredible blessings we have in our lives and be thankful for them.

So today, I want us all to share a few things that we are thankful and grateful for despite what may be happening in our lives.

I am thankful for:

  • A beautiful wife Abby…she filly my life with so much light!
  • The best, cutest little boy on the planet
  • A cozy home to call my own.
  • I get paid to play music…pretty good gig. 
  • An amazing, functional and supportive family that I can rely on.

Finish this sentence:

Today, I am thankful for…


To Choose Joy

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Recently, I’ve been in a season of life where I’ve had to choose joy. In these more trying seasons, I often forget that joy is a choice. Since joy is not based on circumstance, it becomes our choice whether or not we are going to experience it. The verse above says to give thank in all circumstances. It doesn’t say for all circumstances but in. So even in tough, unexpected, and bad circumstances, we can choose to give thanks or choose joy.

We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. – Hebrews 6:19

The funny thing about tough seasons is that they make you feel isolated. When we go through storms, we tend to believe the lie that we are alone and no body else understands what we are experiencing. It is important to protect ourselves from this lie. Our friends may not perfectly understand, but our God does. He is with you always and the unchanging anchor for our soul.

 “The Lord is my strength and shield. I trust him with all my heart. He helps me, and my heart is filled with joy. I burst out in songs of thanksgiving.” Psalm 28:7

Whatever you are going through right now, remember you can choose joy and trust that God, who is our hope, is with us no matter what.

What situations are you facing that you need to choose joy?

We Reflect…

“God has made humans to reflect Him, but if they do not commit themselves to Him, they will not reflect Him but something else in creation. At the core of our being we are imaging creatures. It is not possible to be neutral on this issue: we either reflect the Creator or something in creation.” Greg Beale

We are God’s masterpieces! We are created in His image and are designed to reflect Him and bring glory and honor to His name.

It is so easy, however, to let other things in life hold a higher value than God. If God is not constantly magnified in our lives, we can begin to lose sight of all he has done. God has blessed us all so immensely and instead of purely thanking God for those blessings, we can start to focus on the blessings and make those the ultimate instead of God himself.  We are created with the desire to worship something/someone, but we have to choose what/who.

“And instead of worshiping the glorious, ever-living God, they worshiped idols made to look like mere people and birds and animals and reptiles…They traded the truth about God for a lie. So they worshiped and served the things God created instead of the Creator himself, who is worthy of eternal praise! Amen.” Romans 1:23-25

We are not the only people to struggle with keeping our focus on God and not just what he can give us. Paul revealed to the Romans that they struggled with this as well. The truth is, we all have a God-sized hole in our hearts and if we don’t fill it with Him, we will naturally search to fill it with something else…money, possessions, relationships, fame, addictions, etc.

When we look to things of this world or even the blessings of God to fill the “identity hole” in our lives, we stop reflecting God.

So maybe today you are feeling unfulfilled. Maybe today you are having an identity crisis and are left, at the end of the day, feeling empty. It might be time to ask yourself who or what you are filling that God-sized hole up with? What takes up most of your attention and time? What are your pursuits? What would your bank account say is most important to you?

Answering these questions will give you a good idea of what truly is most important to you. Everyday we have a choice to either keep God in the center of our lives or allow temporal substitutes creep in.

Keep God first. It will help everything else make sense.

“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.” Matthew 6:33 

Church: Good? Bad?

It’s funny how divisive church can be even amongst christians. But we need to learn and grow from each other…we need to be able to have productive conversations about our differences with the goal of pointing people towards Christ. Soooo…I have two simple questions to ask that probably aren’t too easy to answer.

What is your favorite thing about church?

And on the flip side, what is your least favorite thing about church?

(these can be answered either from a local sense or globally, the church at large.)


|| Let’s get this conversation started. ||

Embracing The Storm

“Jesus said to him, ‘Friend, do what you came to do.’ Then they came up and laid hands on Jesus and seized him.” Matthew 26:50

How often do we embrace the storm we may know is coming or one we are already in?

Probably not too often.

It’s counterintuitive. A storm is something to avoid so, therefore, we do everything we can to avoid the storm. It’s amazing, when we look at Jesus’ life, the response he had when the storm came.

He embraced it.

Seems a little crazy, right? But let’s look at how he got to that point.

A few verses early in Matthew 26, Jesus goes to pray in Gethsemane with his disciples. He knows a storm in coming. The amazing thing to me is that Jesus essentially asks God to “let this cup pass from me.” three separate times that night. He doesn’t want the impending storm either.

This should tell you and I that there is nothing wrong with not wanting to enter a storm or trial. They are obviously not fun and are very challenging seasons. But most of the time they are unavoidable and necessary. And what Jesus says after asking for the cup to pass is the real crux of this post…

“Nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.”

He embraces the storm.

Again, how was he able to say that?

By abiding in the Father. Jesus had a very close and in-tune relationship with God. He was very connected to the will of God. Because of this close relationship, He trusted that God knew best. He had confidence that no matter what storm may be coming, that God is still in control and there is a reason for what we are going through.

This is such a great example for you and I to mimic when we are facing a storm. Stay close and in-tune with Jesus. Abide is the Father’s love. Trust that his ways are better than ours. Know that he is fully in control and truly does love you and care about you. We won’t always know the reasons why we go through the things that we do, and truthfully, we don’t always need to. We just need to be able to trust that God is God and we are not.

So if you are facing a storm today, embrace it. Press in to Jesus and rest in his presence. He will see you through. Cause as you know with Jesus, he did die on the cross, but he rose again and became the Savior of the world and the redeemer for you and me.

The quote that changed your life…

One of my goals for this blog is that it is a place where a community of people can come and journey this life together. A place where we can help inspire and encourage one another.

So, with that in mind, what words of wisdom or quote has greatly impacted your life?

It doesn’t have to pertain to any certain topic and you may have more than one…that’s all great.

Leave them in the comments below so that we can all be inspired and be better together.

What it’s really only about…

Sunday morning is here. Everyone takes their seat. The countdown reaches zero and the service takes off! The house lights go dim and the LEDs come on. The band plays, the music is loud and people clap. The pastor preaches and we nod our heads. Everyone prays and leaves…the service ends. Sound familiar?

If we aren’t careful, even something as important as what happens on a Sunday morning, can become empty; just a program to accomplish. We can so easily make it about everything else instead of making Sunday what it’s designed to be about.

It’s only about Jesus.

It doesn’t matter whether you are on staff at a church, a volunteer, or someone just attending. If our focus isn’t on Jesus, we have missed the mark.

“The Great God values not the service of men, if the heart be not in it: The Lord see and judges the heart; he has no regard to outward forms of worship, if there be no inward adoration, if no devout affection be employed therein. It is therefore a matter of infinite importance, to have the whole heart engaged steadfastly for God.” ~ Isaac Watts

It’s not about our works, it’s about our heart. There is nothing wrong with lights. There is nothing wrong with a full band and loud praise. There is really nothing wrong with program or keeping things organized. Those are all just tools. But there is a problem when our focus shifts to make the service about those things. It’s a fine line that we have to constantly check our hearts.

Our natural inclination will be to start worshipping the creation instead of the Creator. We must guard our hearts on this. A church service is to celebrate what God has done and who He is.

Whether you are staff, volunteer, or regular attendee, make church about Jesus. Don’t get hung up on the small things that are a matter of preference. Worship is a choice that we make.

We can make it about Jesus or everything else.

What are your goals for 2015?

“Commit your actions to the Lordand your plans will succeed.” Proverbs 16:3

What are your goals for this year?

Goal setting is such an important process to our lives and if you are not someone who does this, I would strongly encourage you to do so. Without a target, it is hard to know where to aim. Goals provide you with a target, a preferred outcome, for you to try to achieve.

Another important aspect of goal setting is accountability. You are FAR more likely to follow through on your goals if you have people willing to hold you to them and help you accomplish them.

So this year, let’s do it. Let help each other accomplish our goals.

Share in the comments below what your goals are and how we can help you accomplish them.

Be blessed.